Dear Cathy, I have 2 daughters and I’ve just found out I’m pregnant. I’m pleased but also very worried. My last baby was a difficult birth and she nearly died. The images of that day still scare me. I later suffered from severe PND (post natal depression). I dearly loved my daughter but I couldn’t cope. I am very scared that I might fall back into that dark place, it wasn’t nice for oldest daughter to see her once happy mummy change. I found it very hard to get out of bed, cook, clean and all of the basic’s really.
Amy
CG: Dear Amy, You are a fantastic mother, I know that from reading your email. I can also understand your concerns. PND is a lot more common that people think and as you know it can change a usually very happy and positive person. There is no reason why you should suffer from PND with this birth because you suffered before. However, you do need to raise your concerns with the professionals involved in your care so they can support and advise you as necessary. I suggest you speak to your GP, I assume he or she treated you before, and I think you will find he or she is most sympathetic and can reassure you and will arrange support. I know you are a very intelligent and caring person and you will get through this period of uncertainty. Cathy x
Thank you. I spoke to the doctor today at my local GP and because of the PND last time I’m going to be seeing a midwife who specializes in mental health throughout the pregnancy, as well as my Community midwife. After the birth my health visitor will make more regular visits too. I’m sure I will be ok. I’ve got my supportive partner and now that I know that help
Amy
